August 2nd, 2010
Hello little weakling slaves ^.^
I had a pleasing experience with a new submissive pet that I thought I would make an example out of. So often I have to deal with irritating interactions with men who approach Me for sessions, real-time servitude, or online domination, and so frequently I must deal with stupidity, arrogance, and even vulgarity.
However this was not the case with this puppy. He did things correctly – so I will spell it out for the rest of you so that you may take note of the proper way to approach a Goddess.
boy first reads My website thoroughly before contacting Me. he joins My yahoo group to find further information. then he sets up initial contact via Niteflirt, and sends an initial small tribute/token of sincerity by purchasing My yahoo ID for $20.
Here is an excerpt from the first email,
“Goddess Lilith,
I joined your yahoo group the other day and automatically received an mp3 you recorded 2 years ago for Xmas. The sound of your voice alone has me aching to become your slave and hear your commands personally. I am not kidding You sound riciculously seductive.
I live in Mass and a real time session would be a dream come true (i’m sure you know that). Please Goddess Lilith, tell me how I can apply to serve you in person and what is the best way to contact you or what is a good time to contact you on here on by one of your other cam services if that is how you wish to begin with me. ”
Note the POLITE tone of voice. Note the submissive statements from the start. Not, “dear mistress, you’re hot I want to suck on your toes and I offer my dick to u” from someone who just casually passed through without actually READING anything on My site.
Any experienced Domme knows immediately what kind of person She is dealing with by the end of your email or phone call. If you aren’t truly submissive, it’s going to show. If you are impolite, disrespectful, and crude, it’s certainly NOT going to earn you the attention of a Goddess.
I allow this boy the privilege of meeting with Me for a real-time session, without further steps such as Niteflirt phone calls or webcam sessions, because I can tell that he is sincere and knows his place.
he shows up, ON TIME, and with gift in hand, an advisable gesture upon your first meeting with Me. I impressed not by the value of the gift, but by what it is. he brought Me 2 packages of Kit Kats. Nothing extravagant. Worth $4-$5 perhaps? But he had read, during his exploring through My site and prescence online, that I loved Kit Kats and really wanted some at one point. This was awhile ago, so he clearly took some time reading through past archives that I have spent My time on to write in the past.
during the session he was polite, respectful, submissive, and followed My commands without question. he was happy just to be in My prescence.
that, in short, is the CORRECT way of approaching. Regardless of whether it’s for a one-time session, or for an ongoing D/s relationship. Know your place before contacting Me. Know who I am, what I like, and the things I am involved in. This shows more respect than words can sometimes. Above all you will show the utmost respect in your behavior and attitude AT ALL TIMES, whether you agree with what I say or not. Show genuine interest in My activities and things I instruct to be done.
that is all, for now. I may leave My Niteflirt line open this evening, after 9pm EST.
http://niteflirt.com/goddesslilith
until next time!
Goddess Lilith
Goddess, you are the best! You deserve nothing short of everything. A place under your feet, or anywhere in your service, is a great honor.
you certainly know your place, My pet